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      Don’t Be Ruled by the 1%
      by The Happy Housewife on April 25, 2012

      It’s happened to all of us. We write, we share, we help, and then we get that email or comment that makes us want to quit.

      Anyone who has been blogging for more than a few months knows that eventually the hate mail will arrive. Whether it is a personal attack, spam, or just people trolling and stirring up trouble the negative feedback hurts.

      The problem is, many of us are ruled by the 1%. Even though 99% of the feedback we receive is positive, we are constantly trying to please and placate that 1%.

      Stop. 

      Don’t let the 1% dictate who you are on the internet.

      Don’t let the 1% keep you from helping the other 99%.

      Don’t let that 1% get under your skin and change your voice. 

      Be authentic and don’t be ruled by the 1%.

      John Acuff has great advice on dealing with haters on his site, click over to read.

       

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  • Stacy on April 25, 2012 at 5:44 pm
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    Thank you. Oh, thank you so much for this post.
    Just today I finally felt like I had taken all I could take. Even though I have a good following and they leave great comments, I get nasty emails and FB comments regularly. And even though I might tell myself I have a thick skin, those words still hurt.
    I am being myself…and that’s all that matters. And so, I blog on…..

  • Susan on April 26, 2012 at 2:48 pm
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    Loving this- it applies to life in general… Don’t let the 1% dictate who you are!